Showing posts with label religion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label religion. Show all posts

Thursday, March 27, 2014

I'm Relating to Jesus' Disciples when they doubted Jesus

Have you every doubted your faith? Do you ever go through times when you doubt the goodness of God?

For the last few months, I've been going through that myself.

Is God real? Why doesn't He answer? I've done what the Bible says but I'm not seeing any results.

I came across this blog post, The Correct Theology didn't help these guys, that was written by this guy, Ed Cyzewski, as a guest post, who wrote a book called Unfollowers: Unlikely Lessons on Faith from Those Who Doubted Jesus. I have not read this book but I will when I get a copy of it.

He wrote some things in the blog post that I really related to and are some of the lessons that I'll learn when I read the book. We sometimes forget how flawed the disciples were before, during, and even after they met, traveled with, and said goodbye to Jesus on the Cross and then at His Ascension.

Below are some things that really spoke to me.


They witnessed miracles. They listened to hours and hours of perfect, undeniably correct teaching. They’d even had the future predicted for them.
They still doubted.
When calamity struck, they bolted. They didn’t join their friends in prayer. They didn’t wait for clarity. While they had every reason to believe, they couldn’t make sense of their experiences. Doubt was too much for them. 
I take comfort that Jesus showed up even as they ran away.

He reveals himself to the incomplete, the uncertain, the wandering, and the unattached.


I relate because I've seen God's work in my life. I've seen Him answer prayer and guide me in my life but when you don't see those answers and you don't see the results of what God is doing in your life, it's easy to have doubts.

I have my doubts and fears and struggles but I believe in God. I believe in the God of the Bible. I believe in my heart that He knows what's best for me and my family, especially my little girl. I'll keep believing but I'm being honest when I say that it's not easy and at times I have a lot of doubts.

I take comfort that the disciples who lived with Jesus and was taught directly by Him, still had doubts, still didn't understand but when the time came, Jesus (God) came to them and helped their unbelief and didn't chastise them but understood them, loved them, and met them where they were in life, and used them greatly to serve Him.
They witnessed miracles. They listened to hours and hours of perfect, undeniably correct teaching. They’d even had the future predicted for them.
They still doubted.
- See more at: http://redemptionpictures.com/2014/03/26/the-correct-theology-didnt-help-these-guys/#sthash.fVYTybJv.dpuf
They witnessed miracles. They listened to hours and hours of perfect, undeniably correct teaching. They’d even had the future predicted for them.
They still doubted.
- See more at: http://redemptionpictures.com/2014/03/26/the-correct-theology-didnt-help-these-guys/#sthash.fVYTybJv.dpuf
They witnessed miracles. They listened to hours and hours of perfect, undeniably correct teaching. They’d even had the future predicted for them.
They still doubted.
- See more at: http://redemptionpictures.com/2014/03/26/the-correct-theology-didnt-help-these-guys/#sthash.fVYTybJv.dpuf
They witnessed miracles. They listened to hours and hours of perfect, undeniably correct teaching. They’d even had the future predicted for them.
They still doubted.
- See more at: http://redemptionpictures.com/2014/03/26/the-correct-theology-didnt-help-these-guys/#sthash.fVYTybJv.dpuf
They witnessed miracles. They listened to hours and hours of perfect, undeniably correct teaching. They’d even had the future predicted for them.
They still doubted.
- See more at: http://redemptionpictures.com/2014/03/26/the-correct-theology-didnt-help-these-guys/#sthash.fVYTybJv.dpuf

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

CHALLENGES

#1 My Daughter’s Surgery this Week

This week my youngest is going in for her second brain surgery to address her Chiari Malformation. She had this done back in June of 2012. She’s really strong and did really well the last time and so I’m praying that it goes really well this time also.

I know we're very anxious about it but I told my wife last night that God loves Aria more than we do. I know that He has her in His hands and He will take care of her. I have faith in my heavenly Father.

#2 Our Children’s Behavior

It’s not easy to go through and I know it really wears on our family. My wife says that she can tell that it’s bothering the kids. When she drops off the kids for school, Aria does not want to go unless mommy promises to come to school early in the afternoon to be with her in the classroom. I’m very thankful that Tina is able to do that, although I know that puts a strain on Tina to get the things done she wants to do for the day.

Suzanna and Haydn have been acting up a little more than normal. Tina thinks it’s because they’re bothered by all that’s going on with Aria. She’s probably correct but it could also be their way of attracting attention since Aria gets the most due to all her medical treatments and we cater to Aria because of how much she goes through on a daily basis.

Have you ever been at a loss on how to correct your children’s behavior?

Have you ever felt like a failure because your child just can’t seem to control him/herself?

Do you ever worry that you, as a parent, must be doing something wrong when your kids just can’t seem to listen?

Probably not and it’s just me but that is some of the challenges that I face when it comes to our kids’ behavior.

#3 Finances

Bills are always a stress and if it’s not one thing, it’s another. Medical bills come in the mail on a regular basis. Our car was hit a couple weeks ago and we had to come up with the $500 deductible plus 20% of the cost of a week’s rental on a car. I had to replace all four tires on my car about two months ago.

BUT, God is good!!
  1. I have a job that pays most of the bills.
  2. Tina works some and does what she can to bring in some money.
  3. Tina is awesome at saving money and finding that bargain. For example, this week on three different occasions she’s saved between 65 and 85% at the grocery store.
  4. Our kids have more than enough to eat and clothes to wear.
  5. We live in a nice house that God allowed us to refinance last year that lowered our mortgage.
I’m sure I could go on but I’ll stop at that for now.

#4 Faith

Do you ever wonder why God allows bad things to happen to people, especially people who believe and put their trust in Him?

I know people who are struggling with or deny that there is a God because it can be hard to believe in a good, loving God when all you see is bad things happening all around.

It's especially hard when bad things happen to yourself and/or your family. We've all wondered how God could allow such a thing to happen. Doesn't God love us? Couldn't have God stopped it?

Faith can be a challenge but I believe Roman 8:28 when it says, "And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose."


Challenges are a part of life. The challenges that come into our lives should help remind us to focus on Him. That's not always easy because we like to focus on ourselves.

Let's remember what James 1:2-5 says, "Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds,
for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him."

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Tough Times

Below is an excerpt from a book I'm reading. It really spoke to my heart.


Our appetites in life determine how we respond in a trial. I have since been in the same circumstances and have not handled the pressure of empty cupboards quite as graciously. But never has lack upset my spiritual apple cart when Jesus was really my First Love.

Pressure brings everything to the surface— the good, the bad, and the ugly. While I don’t like it, pressure comes because of the mercy of God. Can you imagine what it would be like to live an entire life without seeing what was in our hearts through trial?

Many people turn their attention to how others have wronged them during their season of testing. That is one of the devil’s better tricks. If I can be preoccupied with what’s wrong with you, I’ll never be in a place to see my own heart. If I can’t see my heart, I can’t repent and be changed. Let’s face it, holiness— becoming like Jesus— is the purpose behind every trial.

The Kingdom of God is so different from everything else we know. Brokenness comes before healing. Weakness is the first step to strength. Seeing our hopeless condition is the prerequisite to experiencing His transforming power.

Johnson, Bill (2010-12-01). Center of the Universe: A Look at Life From the Lighter Side (p. 20). Destiny Image. Kindle Edition.

Wednesday, June 19, 2013

My Life in Fundyville by Fundy Rebel

I want to encourage you to read this woman's blog at My Life in Fundyville. This is a brand new blog. I'm sure you'll want to read all her entries and definitely read the comments where others have told their stories. I know this is going to be interesting and I'm looking forward to future posts.


Everyone's journey in/through/& out of "fundyville" will be different. I have considered what I grew up in as an average fundy church. I've been to "fundy lite," average, and even a couple of extreme fundy churches and there is a difference.

In some ways, I think that "fundy lite" can be more dangerous because it's subtle. It's easier to overlook because you don't realize the hold it has on you. As I went through life, what I thought was the Holy Spirit was just the "principles" and "guidelines" that I was taught to be a good Christian. It's not that the principles and guidelines were wrong but the things that we did and didn't do based on them caused us to think we were sinning, that others were sinning, or if they were better Christians, they wouldn't do certain things.

When you only show up for church services and not involved in any part of the ministries of a "Fundy lite" church, it is very easy to think that you're church is different and not involved in the power, manipulation, and control that you hear about it "other" churches. It's easy to miss that only certain people get "loved on" when sick or having a baby. Or, that only certain people, no matter talent or experience, get to teach a class, sing in front of the church, or be visible beyond working in the nursery.

You also come to believe that all other churches outside the baptist "umbrella" are wrong and teach a false gospel. When you finally venture out from under that "umbrella", you realize that this is not true.

One of the problems of growing up "fundy lite" is that it preps people for "hardcore fundy." I've seen multiple people make that step and it seems to be a natural transition. Unfortunately, these people see this step as a growth of spirituality instead of another level of control.


Anyway, I'm looking forward to reading Fundy Rebel's blog. I know there are too many people out there who will be able to relate to her story.

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Ezekial 18 – Sins of the Father

I have been listening through Ezekial this month and chapter 18 stuck out to me. Sometimes I wonder if I have to pay for the sins of my father or if I raise a son who defies God, will I have to pay for his sins. I’ve always felt we’re responsible for ourselves but God’s Word and His clarification on the subject really meant a lot to me this week.

Ezekial gives this list of sins several times in this chapter but to save time I’ll list them here.
1.       Violent
2.       Shedder of blood
3.       Eats upon the mountain
4.       Defiles his neighbor’s wife
5.       Oppresses the poor and needy
6.       Commits robbery
7.       Does not restore a pledge
8.       Lift up his eyes to the idols
9.       Commits abomination
10.    Lends at an interest and takes a profit

Ezekial also lists the behaviors of a righteous man, which parallels the list of sins.
1.       Does not eat upon the mountain
2.       Lift his eyes to the idols of Israel
3.       Does not defile neighbor’s wife
4.       Does not oppress anyone
5.       Restores to the debtor his pledge
6.       Exacts no pledge
7.       Commits no robbery
8.       Gives bread to the hungry
9.       Covers the naked with a garment
10.    Withholds his hand from iniquity
11.    Withholds his hand from injustice
12.    Executes true justice between man and man
13.    Takes no interest or take a profit
14.    Obeys my rules
15.    Walks in my statutes
16.    Keeps my rules by acting faithfully


Here’s the good news, the lesson for today.
1.       The soul who sins shall die. (vs. 4, 19)
2.       The righteous man shall live. (vs. 9)
3.       The righteous man shall not die because of his sinful son. (vs. 13)
a.        He shall not pay for the iniquity of his son. (vs. 20)
4.       The righteous man shall not die because of his sinful father. (vs. 17)
a.       He shall not pay for the iniquity of his father. (vs. 20)
5.       If the sinful (wicked) turn from their sin, they shall not die and his transgressions shall not be remembered against him. (vs. 21, 27-28)
6.       If the righteous man turns to wickedness, he shall die and his righteous deeds will not be remembered. (vs. 24, 26)

Have I any pleasure in the death of the wicked, declares the Lord God, and not rather that he should turn from his way and live? (vs. 23)


For I have no pleasure in the death of anyone, declares the Lord God; so turn, and live. (vs. 32)

Thursday, May 16, 2013

Death & Assuming God's Reasons

When a person dies a fairly young death, people like to assign a reason as to why God would remove them from this earth. A lot of time with religious people, and especially fundamentalist, make a determination depending on what they think of the person. When it comes to people that are deemed good and wholesome, it's considered a tragedy and figure that "God must have a reason even if we don't understand."

Both my mothers died at relatively young ages. My first mom was 26 and my second mom was almost 53. They should have had years to live but God saw fit to take them "home" to heaven. Sometimes I've wondered why and I could make some assumptions but I've never thought that God took them home because of some evil that they have done. Anyone who knew my mothers probably never thought that either.

When it comes to others, they wonder what sin that person was committing. If they know about certain sin or don't agree with their religious beliefs, they start quoting James 1:15 "sin bringeth forth death" and other examples of lives in the Bible being cut short.

I know it's true and I even wrote about it in my family about James 1:15 personified in our family.

I know a young man who died in a motorcycle accident. I was told that he had gone back to his sinful life and that it was God's punishment for not serving God anymore.

A few years ago, one of my Bible college professors died an early death. On facebook I saw a pastor I know say it was because the man had become a staunch atheist and was writing a book refuting God's substitutionary death on the cross for our sins and that God killed this professor because he was making a mockery of God.

In the past year or so, a couple of young men of highly visible religious people have committed suicide. One's from fundamentalist background and the other from a evangelical background. What's sad is that the fundamentalist's family received sympathy and a "wonder why" but the family from the evangelical background received condemnation and suggestions that it was because they're not really serving the "true God."

Here's my question? Why do we speculate the worst? Why do we think that a person must have done or is doing something wrong and that is why they died?

We should not assume the reason why tragedy and death come to people at a young age. Only God knows.

It's insensitive, callous, and just cruel to state publicly that God killed someone out of what you might perceive as "righteous judgment."

Let's support the families by showing love and compassion. Stand with them in prayer. They don't deserve your unfounded opinion of God's purpose of allowing a tragedy to come into their lives.

Tuesday, April 9, 2013

Castaway Kid by R.B. Mitchell


This is a great story. I had a hard time putting it down. It really touched my heart. I liked his honesty of how he struggled throughout his life about being neglected by his family and a belief in God. I loved hearing his struggles with God and the patience he saw God had with him throughout his life and coming to grips with his past.

I’m sure most people feel this way.
But even at age seven I could see that kids preferred poverty if they were loved, rags if they were cared for, and homelessness if someone wanted them. We were willing to suffer much if we could only be part of our own families. (pg. 28)
I love this prayer. It’s real and honest.
On a September afternoon in 1971, at age 17, I made a decision. In a little bedroom too small to turn my bed around in, I got down on my knees. Jesus, I prayed, if You are real, come into my nightmare. Forgive me of my sins and change me. If You really change me, I’m Yours forever. If You don’t, You’re a fraud and a joke. (pg. 134)
I really love this.
After saying good night, I turned off the flashlight and lay in the pitch black of our jungle hut. I needed no light to see the truth: No matter where I was, God was there for me and for everyone— regardless of culture, language, history, or color. (pg. 171)
I thought this was real good.
The answers are complex, but the foundational truth isn’t: I couldn’t change the events and circumstances imposed on me, but I could choose how to respond. The mark of a person, it seems to me, is not just in how one acts but also in how one reacts. (pg. 240)
This is very true.
When I reached out to God for the hope offered everyone regardless of race, language, or culture, I learned that nothing I do to myself or is done to me by others, no abuse or apathy, nothing that has happened or ever will happen—including death—can separate me from the love of God. That love helped me to forgive, releasing me from my painful past—just as that love has helped so many others forgive and find freedom. (pg. 241)

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Breaking the Chains: Overcoming the Spiritual Abuse of a False Gospel by Shari Howerton

I really enjoyed this book and hearing her journey of being born, raised, and lived in a "church" for 43 years that claimed to be the only church that was part of "The Body" of Christ.

It was very insightful and it was interesting to hear how hard it was for her to leave even after she knew something was wrong and how much of a grasp the teachings had on her life even years after she left.

Her prayer is that others will see and escape the spiritual abuse and have a real relationship with God.

Below are some of the things she said that I thought we very insightful and interesting.

I learned to trust God with every aspect of my life. I learned not to judge His actions by how well they mirror my own desires. I learned to trust Him when I understand and when I do not, when I am overflowing with joy and when I am struggling to cope with life’s challenges.


But when there is coercion and pressure in the form of spiritual manipulation, there is no freedom of choice. Subtle mind control and implied messages are often the most oppressive. In all the years I spent there, I refused to believe that I was controlled; yet I never knew genuine freedom.


This philosophy of elitism encouraged abuses of power that left many atrocities in its wake. Still many remain unwaveringly conditioned by the fear of “speaking against” or even questioning these “men of God.” Although it is a warped and twisted view of the Scriptures, people with honest hearts are often vulnerable to manipulation after many years of this conditioning.

Our emotional “shelves” were not intended to carry this kind of weight. Being taught to put it on the shelf rather than deal with our pain sends a horrible message, which inflicts an additional emotional burden on every victim. It makes the victim responsible for the emotions and discomfort of everyone around him or her. Victims of abuse should never carry the weight of hurting or embarrassing their abusers, their abusers’ families, their church, or even their own families, but they do. Sometimes they carry that weight for the rest of their lives. In some cases, they are encouraged to do so by well-meaning people. Instead the message should be: “None of this is your fault.”

I have witnessed countless apathetic observers insist that victims just “have to forgive,” even in the absence of repentance. I have seen victims absolutely vilified simply because they needed to talk about what happened to them. And I believe those who remain fearfully silent today choose to suffer privately, at least in part, because they have witnessed the vilification of others who have dared to talk.

I learned that when you enable someone’s ungodly behavior, you are only thinking of yourself. If you truly love someone, you will tell them the truth instead of what they want to hear.

Any time other people’s opinions and validation mean so much to you that they make your ‘top three’ list, you are in serious trouble. At some point, you will compromise what is right in order to be considered a good person by others.”

“The essence of courage is this: Courage is facing your heart’s greatest nightmare and saying I’m going to do the right thing, I’m going to do the unselfish thing no matter what.” – Tim Keller

loyalty to a group can contribute to the breakdown of a family.

to choose a group above a relationship was idolatry.

Where justice doesn’t matter, the truth becomes something moldable and is often lost in translation. Conversely, where truth is relative, justice has little relevance.

I remember my counselor pointing out to me that a dual life was a natural by-product of legalism and perfectionism. Since none of us can actually be perfect, the next best thing is to try to look perfect.

He wrote two words on the chalkboard; humble and exalt. He had us look at the words for a few moments. Then he said, “As you walk through life, you will have to choose to either humble yourself or exalt yourself in many situations. Just remember that whichever one you choose, God will take care of the other.”

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Letters from a Skeptic by Greg & Ed Boyd

I just finished reading Letters from a Skeptic: A Son Wrestles with His Father's Questions about Christianity and I really found it interesting. As a whole, I thought it was a great book and I thought Dr. Boyd did a great job in explaining Christianity and Salvation to his father but I also disagreed with a few things. I'm going to go through and share some of my thoughts.
NEGATIVES

On page 25, Dr. Boyd is trying to answer his father about God being responsible for all the wickedness int he world and I believe he does an admirable job of not placing blame on God but he attributes it to man's "free will." I really have a problem with this. The only time mankind had a "free will" was in the Garden with Adam and Eve. They had the will to be able to choose between good and evil. With Adam's sin, we don't have that choice any more. Our "will" is bent towards sin and away from God. Dr. Boyd is correct that we have the propensity towards great good and great evil on this earthly realm and we can make that choice but it's not because of us having a "free will." It seems to think that if we have a "free will," we'd be "robots who simply act out a divine, preplanned program." Unfortunately, our "wills" are limited by our abilities and God had given us a freedom on this earth and that freedom can be used or abused for good and for evil.

On pages 39 and following is where I have my biggest problem with this book. He states, "So God can't foreknow the good or bad decisions of the people He creates until He creates these people and they, in turn, create their decisions." Basically, he is teaching "Open Theology."

He does say that this is not the traditional Christian viewpoint but he doesn't agree with it. I believe that Scripture is very clear that God knows the beginning to the end. I won't go into refuting this theology here but God is not limited and saying that God does not know the future is limiting an Almighty God. He does try to explain his position but I have a hard time accepting it.


I also had a problem with how he explains hell.
     His first explanation
            On page 53, he talks about a "probation period" that God has in which His Creation can choose to "love or not love." When that period is over he says that they are "solidified in their decision." He says, "That is what the Bible means by heaven or hell. It is the 'externalization' of one's character."
           I don't have a problem with the "probation period" because it's based of what happened to Lucifer and his angels but to call the results "hell" is what I disagree with. Maybe he was saying that he results of choosing not to love God is that you'll go to hell.

     His second explanation
              On page 196, Dr. Boyd states that most people don't talk about a literal hell. He says that the Bible uses metaphors to describe hell to let people know that it's a really bad place "and none of them are to be taken as a literal 'snapshot' of what hell is going to be like." He says that the Bible authors are telling us that hell is "the refuse of humanity. It is the dumping grounds of the cosmos. It is the ultimate destiny of people who freely choose to live a life God never intended for them. They become 'garbage' ..'cast out'..'burned in the fire.'"


     His third explanation
            On page 199, he says that some believe that "God will ultimately annihilate all who are not 'in Christ.' The punishment is 'eternal' because it has eternal effects, not because it is endured eternally." He does state that he has reservations about this view but it is a view that some theologians believe based on what they think the Bible says.
            
 I really don't like how he explains away God's Will. On pages 58-59, Dr. Greg is explaining why bad things happen to people and he says that those looking for the "purpose of God" have "a piously confused way of thinking." He says that, "The only purpose of God in the whole thing is His design to allow morally responsible people the right to decide whether to drink responsibly or irresponsibly."

POSITIVES

On page 26 he makes a great distinction between religion and relationship.

On page 29 he makes some great statements. He refers to "free will" (which I don't agree with) but his comments about God's lack of interference are very insightful. He asks, "What is the freedom to love or not love unless it is freedom to enrich or harm another?" He goes on to say, "A freedom which is prevented from being exercised whenever it was going to be misused simply wouldn't be freedom." He even gives a good illustration to explain his point.

On page 34, he makes a very interesting statement when he said, "Love is really the only reason worth creating! It's not freedom for the sake of freedom that God values - it's love. Freedom is simply the only possible means to this end."

The following paragraph, found on pages 43-44, I found very interesting and insightful.
It may be that a good deal of what we call “evil” is simply due to the fact that anything which God could create would be limited in certain respects. The very fact that what God creates is less than Himself introduces limitations and imperfections into the picture. Any created thing must, for example, possess a limited set of characteristics which rules out the possibility of it possessing other characteristics incompatible with these. But this can lead to some unfortunate consequences. The rock which holds you up must also be hard enough for you to stub your toe on it. The air which you breathe must also be thin enough to allow you to fall through it when not supported by a hard surface. The water which quenches your thirst must also be dense enough so you can’t breathe in it, and so on. The dependability of the world which makes it possible for rational, morally responsible creatures to live works against us in certain circumstances. Indeed, every positive feature of any created entity is a potentially negative feature in certain circumstances.
Throughout the book I love his clear presentation of the gospel and his encouragement to his father to accept Christ as his Savior.
On page 35, he states, "On the cross of Calvary, God took upon Himself all the sin of the world, and all the pain and punishment that that sin produces. He didn't have to. He did it out of love - because love is worth it. It's worth dying for, even in God's view."
On page 54 he says, "God has given us in Jesus Christ. He became a man, lived His life, and died on the cross to perfectly reconcile us with God and to give us a new life— God’s life."
On page 90, he answers, "If God is the one perfect, loving, caring being, then we would suppose that He would do everything possible to bring about the greatest possible good for His creatures. Anything less would be less than perfect. And Christ reveals that this is exactly what God did! God Himself became a man, one of us, and suffered a hellish death on the cross of Calvary in order to rectify all the evil which His personal creatures, humans, have inflicted on themselves. He has done, and is doing, everything possible (“ possible” defined by the limits required by His overall agenda) to have us humans eternally with Him."
On pages 220-221 he gives a beautiful description of a Christian's sanctification. He says, "Christians, then, are each much like a butterfly in a cocoon. The life of beauty, of flying, of gracefulness is within them— it’s who they truly are— but this life is enclosed inside something which is inherently opposed to beauty, flying, and gracefulness. They are destined to fly, but in the meantime their life is a life of transition. They are butterflies in the process of shedding their cocoons."

I thought his discussion on prayer on pages 80-84 was pretty good and he uses some pretty good analogies. One of the things he says is, "If petitionary prayer could be conclusively “verified,” it would turn God into a sort of cosmic vending machine. Make your requests, pull the lever, and abracadabra, you have your wish granted. But this defeats the whole purpose of prayer, which is to facilitate a faith-filled relationship with the Creator. So it takes faith to pray, and faith to see the answer to prayer."

In his letter on March 8, 1990 that starts on page 95, I really liked his defense of the historical accuracies of the Bible. This will lend credibility later when he defends it being God's Word and inspired. This topic is discussed some more in his May 23rd letter starting on page 113.

This is probably my favorite and probably most insightful statement I read in the entire book. He says, "Fundamentalists, at the opposite extreme, are so afraid of anything “liberal” that they tend to read the Bible “ahistorically.” They try to make the Bible into a twentieth-century legal document."

Page 210 starts probably the best chapter in the book when Dr. Boyd answers the question, "How can another man's death pardon me?"

At the end of the book is written a beautiful tribute to his dad and how accepting Christ changed his dad's life. To be honest, it brought tears to my eyes.

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

"All is Vanity (Emptiness)"

I listened to Ecclesiastes yesterday morning and I listened to it again this morning on the way to work. Over and over again, "The Preacher," King Solomon, exclaims that everything is vanity. He did everything he wanted, and had wealth beyond measure, and he sought for wisdom and knowledge his entire life, and at the end of it all, he claims that "it's all vanity." Sounds hopeless but it's not. In this book, He's trying to impart wisdom to us, his listeners.

I'd like to share some of the things that I picked up while listening. It's things that I struggle with at times.

First, enjoy life. Several times Solomon tells us that whatever our lot in life, we need to enjoy it. In the end, it's all we really have. We could strive and strive for more and more and not be satisfied. We start with nothing and we don't take anything with us when we die. What do we have? We have the life that is given to us and Solomon says in Ecc.5: 18 "Behold, what I have seen to be good and fitting is to eat and drink and find enjoyment in all the toil with which one toils under the sun the few days of his life that God has given him, for this is his lot."

The second thing that caught my attention was in Ecc.6:9a "Better is the sight of the eyes than the wandering of the appetite." For more than five chapters Solomon has been talking about the striving for more, the emptiness it brings, the lack of satisfaction, and still striving for more without enjoying what you have and then this verse. It tells me that it is better to see what I already have then to chasing after my wants. In another place he uses the analogy that it's just like chasing the wind.

The third, and probably most important, words of wisdom (and goes nicely with the first one) that I heard these past two days is found in...
                 Ecc. 9: 7-10 "Go, 
                          1. eat your bread with joy, and 
                          2. drink your wine with a merry heart, for 
                          3. God has already approved what you do.  
                          4. Let your garments be always white. 
                          5. Let not oil be lacking on your head.
                          6. Enjoy life with the wife whom you love
                all the days of your vain life that he has given you under the sun, because that is your portion in life and in your toil at which you toil under the sun. Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might,for there is no work or thought or knowledge or wisdom in Sheol (the grave), to which you are going."
     
When I put all this together it reminded me that I should enjoy the life that God has given me and not be wishing for things that I don't have. I need to enjoy the time I have with my wife and kids and don't waste my time thinking about having bigger and better. Whatever I do, whether work or play, do it with everything I have. I have what I have because God's already approved it for me and it's all for nothing if I'm not satisfied with my lot in life.

Solomon sums it all up in Ecc.12: 13 "The end of the matter; all has been heard. Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the whole duty of man." 

While we enjoy our portion in life that God has given us, our duty in life is to honor and obey Him. I can't think of anything better than having satisfaction in life while serving my God.

Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Worrying Vs. Trusting

I'm not usually one to worry a lot, especially not lose sleep over something. I'm pretty laid back and easy going but I don't usually fret and worry over things. I realize that things are going to work out.

For example, my daughter is starting her Sub-Q IVIG treatments tomorrow and Tina and I are going to learn how to administer them at home. There are some concerns and this is something that I can imagine people worrying about but I'm not. I know God will take care of her and I know everything will work out.

Lately, I've been worrying about something else personal and maybe because it involves me directly and I can imagine a number of different scenarios of how things could play out and I don't trust the people involved, I'm worried. I'm losing sleep over it and I just can't seem to stop thinking about it, especially when I'm laying down to sleep. I just keep turning everything over and over in my head wondering how things are going to work out. It's very possible I have nothing to worry about and it's very possible that I should be worried. I'm really not sure.

I keep telling myself, "God's in control" and "Everything works out to the glory of God" and "All things work together for good to those who trust in Him" and "Trust God, He knows what he's doing" and any other Christian euphemism that we were all taught while growing up. My heart knows I can trust God but my worry gets in the way.

It is easy to trust God when everything is going well or it doesn't involve you. It's easy to encourage others to put their trust and faith in God when it's them that is going through the trial. What's tough is when you're going through your own trial.

I thought today that it's easy for me to trust God. I've done that my entire life. That's what I've been taught. It's what I believe and know deep down know it to be true. I don't get too worried about too many things. Part of it is just my personality.

What occurred to me today is that maybe God needs to remind me and teach me in a personal way that He is in control. Everything could just fall apart and that's ok. I know who my heavenly Father is and I know He loves and cares for me more that I do for my own kids, and that's a lot. Some lessons from God need to be learned first-hand. God had to bring something close and personal into my life to remind me that I can trust Him.

I'll admit that I'm probably not over worrying and maybe losing more sleep but while I'm struggling with that, my thoughts are more on Him. I keep reminding myself of His promises in Scripture that He loves me. He'll never forsake me and that no matter what happens, He'll take care of me. I wouldn't be reminding myself of His promises if I wasn't struggling with worry.

Bringing trials into our lives is God's way of getting us to come to Him. My prayer is asking God for strength and wisdom to go through this and in the process, learning to trust Him more.

Thursday, August 2, 2012

Different Churches for Different People


I grew up in an Independent Fundamental Baptist Church. I was taught that our group of churches was the most honoring to God and that we followed the Bible the closest. Although we had our rules and guidelines, my church seemed to be fairly balanced. I learned a lot and owe them a debt of gratitude. The founding pastor was a BJU grad and we had BJU people come through there all the time and most of us who went to college went to BJU. There were some smaller colleges that some went to but that was not the norm at the time. When our church started its own college, I stayed in Arizona, otherwise I probably would have headed to South Carolina in 1985.

Years later, after being out of church for years, I held Tri-City as the epitome of what a church should be but when I tried to go back, I didn’t feel welcome. I decided to look elsewhere. Of course, like I was taught, I looked for a Baptist church. I showed up at a Conservative Baptist Church and even though I had been taught that churches should be independent, I enjoyed it there. It was different but close to the way I had been raised. The Sunday school teacher would have fit in well at an IFB church. I don’t hold that against him. He was/is a great guy and has a great family. God used that church greatly in my life.

As time has gone on, I’ve been a part of and visited in a number of churches, from Jack Hyles type churches to other extremely extreme IFB churches. In these churches I’ve seen where the members have some liberties of conscience and others that do as they are told. I’ve been in some dead churches and others that were livelier. Each church would have thought the other was wrong because of one thing or another.

Here is what I’ve come to realize. Different people need different kinds of churches. It’s not a one-size-fits-all. Some members need the pastor to tell them right from wrong and how to dress and what to listen to and what it should look like to be spiritual. It’s easier to be told the guidelines than to allow the Holy Spirit to do His job of working from inside out. On the other end of the spectrum, you have members who don’t want to change; they just want to enjoy church and the benefits it might bring.

A couple of years ago, when looking for another church, I found out that the Baptist church does not have the corner market on truth and they are not the only ones teaching and preaching the Bible. As heretical as that might sound to my Baptist friends, it’s true. A name on the church doesn’t always determine what’s going on inside. Non-denominational does not mean it’s liberal and not teaching the Bible. A church that’s part of an organized denominational structure can be a good thing and is actually more Scriptural than isolated, independent churches. Speaking in tongues and having a prayer language does not mean that they “have another spirit.” Some charismatic and Assembly of God churches love God and practice these things in accordance to God’s Word, in spite of what we were taught in our Baptist circles.

What I’m suggesting is that you don’t assume something about a church just based on its name. If you’re looking for a church, visit it. Look for people who love each other and love God. That’s a true sign of a body of believers, not the way they’re dressed, not the music they’re playing, not “whatever you can think of.” Do they go out of their way to show God’s love and kindness, not only to each other, but to the world around them? If so, that’s the church you should join.

Don’t let a name or denomination stop you from finding a body of Christ who love Him. Our world is small enough without isolating ourselves and thinking that we’re the only people who a corner on the Truth. There are different churches for different people and even though they might believe something differently than you, it doesn’t mean that they are wrong, it could be you.

Wednesday, July 11, 2012

MUSIC – A Biblical Example for Worship


There are so many thoughts on music and what’s appropriate for the Christian and people teach their “principles” to others and try to use God’s Word to base their rules and guidelines about what is good music, bad music, worshiping music, etc. I was listening through Chronicles and came across a great example of praise and music that was done by one of our heroes of the faith that is often overlooked in certain circles of fundamentalism and so I thought I would point out how worship should be done using a Scriptural example that God was pleased with but not with an observer (who should have been a participant).

I Chronicles 15: 16-29.
                        Vs. 16            Play LOUDLY
                                              Use singers
                                              Use instruments (harps, lyres, cymbals)
                                              Raise sounds of joy
                        Vs. 17-22       Be Organized (people assigned to different instruments, singers, and a director)
                        Vs. 26            Sacrifice
                        Vs. 27            Clothed (robe of fine linen, linen ephod)
                        Vs. 28            Everyone shouting
                                              LOUD music using horns, trumpets, cymbals, harps, and lyres
                        Vs. 29            Dancing
                                              Rejoicing